“Don’t wish your life were easier, wish you were better. When you get better, your life will get easier” – Jim Rohn.

Imagine how you would feel if you could live the life you have always wanted. A life where you feel completely alive and fulfilled in every way. You are happy, confident, and free of the past, you know you can BE, DO, and HAVE anything you set your mind to. How does that image make you feel?Did you know that you have the incredible ability to break through whatever barriers are holding you back?

The secret to life

Did you know that you have the incredible ability to break through whatever barriers are holding you back, the power to super-charge every area of your life, no matter your circumstances? Well it is true! You can BE anyone, DO anything and HAVE all that you would ever truly want. So what is it that you want to have? What would you need to do to get it? And who would you need to be to do what it takes?

Principle of Be, Do, Have

What’s the secret you ask? Well it is the simple principle of BE, DO, HAVE. You need to be someone you have never been before, to do what you have never done before, so that you can have what you have never had before.

Whether you knew it or not this principle has always been working in your life, both favorably and unfavorably. A lot of times you may get stuck on the “have” and “do” parts unknowingly and have no results. For example, if you want to have a muscular body you can go to the gym and do the workouts, however if you are not being persistent and committed in working out then it will be difficult to have that muscular body. The secret is that all 3 parts must be present for this principle to work.

What do you really want?

So stop & think for a moment about what do you desire to have in life, this can be in your career, with your family with your relationships or physically :

1. What kind of person do you need to be in order to achieve this desire?

2. What small action can you take today to get you one step closer to this desire?

3. Who do you know that already has what you want and how can you learn from their actions and ways of being so that YOU too can have those results in your life?You need to be someone you have never been before, to do what you have never done before, so that you can have what you have never had before.

Let these questions guide you towards attaining your dreams. They can open your eyes to new ideas and perceptions, ones that you can take action from.

TODAY, choose to become that person, do those things and have those results you have always wanted. If you BEcome extraordinary, you can DO the extraordinary and eventually have the extraordinary.

Always remember, doing this today will change the direction of your life. So do not resist the change EMBRACE it! Strive to be better everyday.

Jessika Ortega

Jessika Ortega is a Certified Ontological Life coach.


“Your gifts are not about you, leadership is not about you, and your purpose is not about you. A life of significance is about SERVING those who need your gifts, your leadership, your purpose” – Kevin Hall

Life is not about what we can get, it is about what we can give.  In order for you to have a fulfilling life you need to give and serve others. Your talents, skills and mere existence are a glorious contribution to humanity, if you choose to share them!

You never know how many lives you will positively impact and change forever by simply being YOU! Embrace the extraordinary template of your own being just as you are. Accept your inner greatness and let go of all resistance, anxiety, frustration and impatience. You need to have infinite patience with yourself and where you are at this current moment in order for your authentic self to burst through.

Life purpose

Stop & think for a moment, if you were to stay exactly where you are right now forever:

  1. What three (3) qualities would you say make YOU stand out from the rest?
  2. How can these qualities be used to serve others that lack them?
  3. How much greater would this world be because you get to lead others by contributing YOUR qualities?

Let these questions lead you to a new starting point for a new state of being, one where you get to share your SELF with the world.

TODAY chose to take action and become a servant for humanity. Be a peoples champion and give without expecting to receive. Be kind to others and contribute as much as you can.

Always remember, doing this today will change the direction of your life, so don’t resist the change, EMBRACE it! Strive to be better every day! – click to tweet

Share your three qualities and how you can use them to serve others in the comments below…

Jessika Ortega

Jessika is a Certified Ontological Life coach  @MsJessikaOrtega

Top image: Joel Bedford


Life is a game that YOU get to design however you want it. You need to always follow your gut because no one knows you better than YOU!  Do what you love, find passion in what you do and you will always be fulfilled. There is no one that can measure your happiness better than yourself, so why leave your happiness in the hands of anyone else? Be honest with yourself and what you truly want in life. You can fool the world, you cannot fool your heart.

Many of us live our life by the standards of others. We worry about what others may think of us. What others may want for us, what others say is best for us so we don’t usually go with what WE want for us. Do you really believe you can mold yourself to the likings of billions of people on this earth?

Be the one to have the courage to STAND OUT & STAND UP for your dreams and your vision of what your life is supposed to look like. Now is the time to take inventory of your life and where you are, honestly. You have the key to unlock the door of clarity and purpose, you just need to choose to put that key in the door and turn it.

Here are 3 questions  you can start to ask yourself:

  1. Is what I am currently doing making me happy or making someone else happy?
  2. Is what I am doing today getting me closer to having the things I want out of life?
  3. Am I  following my passion or just passsionate about surviving?

Your experiences have shaped you. Your mistakes, your successes, your results have molded you into what you are today. Just like one day can never be duplicated, the same goes for you as a person.Your mistakes, your successes, your results have molded you into what you are today

The lesson here is for you to acknowledge & appreciate who YOU are. People don’t belong to you and YOU don’t belong to people. You have the gift of free choice, so choose to be happy and do things that give you fulfillment. Don’t let fear of what others may think paralyse you. Face fear head on and you’ll see that the story you told yourself in your head is much worse that what it is in real life.

TODAY, chose to take action to becoming an authentic YOU. Be childlike, experiment, explore, be playful and just BE FREE & to change what isn’t functioning for you so you finally do have momentum in achieving what you really want.

And remember, doing this today will change the direction of your life, so  don’t resist the change, EMBRACE it! Strive to be better everyday.

Featured image: Taylor Dawn Fortune